Having kids was always up in the air. I’d imagine a plot of land with friends nearby. We’d have people over at least once a week. We’d share deep conversations about life and work. My family would come and visit and they’d have a place to stay. Lilo girl would have a fenced in outdoor area where she could sit and smell all she wanted. I’d be running my own company with a small team from home during the week and spending quality time with the people in my life at nights and on the weekends. A few times out of the year trips would be taken to experience more.
4 years ago everything changed. But, in 4 years everything will change again. Only this time, these change of plans won’t be a surprise and a setback.